Marriage in Islam

Marriage in Islam
September 21, 1:19 PMBoston Muslim Women's ExaminerBatul Juma



In Islam, marriage is a simple, legal contract between a man and a woman to live together as husband and wife.

A Muslim girl cannot be forced to marry against her will. Parents may suggest a suitable man for her but the choice is hers.

Marriage is strongly encouraged in Islam. It is both a legal agreement and a sacred bond. Allah has commanded in the Holy Quran: "Get the singles among you married as well as those who are fit for marriage among your male slaves and female slaves. If they are poor, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace: for Allah has boundless resources and is All-Knowing (24:32)." "And of His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may find comfort with them, and He planted love and mercy for each other in your hearts; surely, there are signs in this for those who think about it (30:21)."

A woman has the same right to own property, earn wealth, and spend it as a man. A woman's wealth does not become the property of her husband after marriage or divorce. Nor is she expected to change her last name after marriage. Husbands and wives are protectors of each other, equal partners, and best of friends; remaining faithful to one another. The husband is the provider. He is responsible for the family. He fulfills his duties with consultation and kindness. Divorce is permitted in Islam but only as a last resort; although it is not common in Muslim families. In such cases, women are givennpriority in the custody of young children and the father is required to provide child support.

Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, has said: "The best among the believers is he who is best in manner and kindest to his wife."